Add my plaudits to the others! I was actually going through a similar decision myself with whether to share my Medium page with a long-time co-worker and friend (with the acknowledged risk that this info could be shared). Oddly enough it was the fact that she had ended a marriage with a narcissistic-sounding husband herself that prompted me to finally conclude I wanted to send her not only a link to my page but yours as well. I think she’ll appreciate and identify with the challenges you’ve overcome. This is the fearless honesty we need more of, and I’m glad to see you stepping into your true self (and maybe a bit of who you want to be too) with such determination and consideration!