Ah, that makes a lot more sense to me then! I wasn't getting that distinction from my original reading of the article, but I see the point now, and I agree. Though I find it easy(ish) to make emotional connections I can say I have been guilty of simply not being considerate enough to make time for relationships and then being confused at the other person's hurt, as I've learned to be a better partner along the way. Thanks for the response!