I can't quite tell if you are defensively calling her an "amateur" and to "try some humility", but frankly it reads that way (because it's the all too typical response-from-triggered-dude in the comments of articles like this). Or were you trying to encourage her to cite psychology articles to back up her conclusions? If the latter, I think it could be worded much better. Also if you lead with empathizing with the very real, measurable fact that inumerable women have experienced grooming, manipulation, and abuse from older men, including the author, then your question about how much of this is nature vs nurture would carry more weight IMO. Thanks for considering my response.