I think she was addressing the author, and the author's curious readership who wish to engage constructively on the topic. Though I agree with others that this title is baiting, and is going to invite a different reader, perhaps ones looking to confirm their existing negative bias.

I've found that one of the best guiding principles you can have regarding the myriad and wonderful ways people enjoy sex and eroticism is "don't yuck someone else's yum".

I hope my disagreement comes across as genuine and sincere and empathetic, as I intended.