I wrote this hastily and it *is* a bit declarative for an opinion isn't it? I should've said that I found the article to be much different in tone than the I found the title/subtitle, which seemed unnecessarily pugilistic to my eyes, especially when compared to the well-worded thoughtful nuance of the article. But it's equally possible that I mistook your intent, which could say something about my perception, your choice in communicating your intent, or both. As a parent of middle-school boys, I'm pretty passionate about reshaping the conversation about healthy masculinity to emphasize encouragement.

And could I over-examine this any more...😉. Regardless, I'd much rather leave you with the bigger picture that I very much enjoyed the article (and gave many claps and highlights), particularly the points about consent and being sexually considerate. Thanks for considering my feedback, and hopefully it lands as intended.