I'll be honest, I was a little worried early on that you were going down a path of "all kink comes from trauma or some mental issue". But I was happily wrong! This is a delightful and informative article, and I think you handle the delicate issue of the real relationship between life experiences and our sexual tendencies without descending into the well-worn and eye-rolling 50 Shades type of trope. Well done and thank you for sharing!