It sounds like you perhaps are doing what I did for years of my younger single days before learning better: aiming for the wrong women. Leave the attractive shallow women for the attractive shallow men, and wait for the interesting ones instead. There’s also the self-work learning to find joy in socializing without being over-focused on "looking". Last be aware that young women are still figuring it out too. A wiser woman may appreciate admiring the Adonis but wants nothing to do with him when he starts showing every red flag in the book.