Omg, how embarrassing. Somehow in scrolling down on my phone I completely skipped past that *entire* paragraph (which is now highlighted) 😳. You nailed it. Nothing else was needed. Oops. Queue the guy not listening meme Thanks for the gentle correction.

And yes! I’ve had a couple of partners I simply couldn’t imagine not having a toke before as part of their process of getting in the mindset (after that all important consent and trust had been established!) or me joining them, unless it was something requiring an extra level of focus like a new Shibari tie to try out, or something sharp or pointy 😈.