Personally I'm at a place where I would rather listen to the stories and opinions on this topic than weigh in myself, though I definitely enjoyed considering your perspective.

I found that some of the case law on this topic was very interesting: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rape_by_deception)

I would also point to Mysterious Witt's differing take on this topic for comparison: https://medium.com/fearless-she-wrote/was-it-rape-if-he-lied-to-get-my-consent-4cb1739d602e

Thanks for sharing!