She'll definitely try. But she is a teacher with kids to take care of (and a doctor ex-husband who sounds like an ass) and I have abundance to share, and it makes me happy to do so. I was a scorecard keeper in younger years, which I thankfully was able to grow out of in part due to my wonderful wife (now my wonderful ex-wife). It sounds like that's a thing a lot of guys go through (and some never get past).