Thank you for sharing this Colleen! Esther Perel is a favorite author of mine. In the words of another: she possesses a ferocious intelligence (and I would add pragmatism and wisdom). Her messages are the stuff of life: feeling alive, embracing passion and uncertainty, and making sense of contradiction in relationships. I’m just starting a week-long series of Tweets quoting her and was happy to run across this article in my search. Many claps!