This is so good--well-written and thought-provoking. More and more studies are showing the evidence of sexuality as a nuanced spectrum instead of as the series of labeled boxes that our cultural cues tend to prefer. I loved the distinction between physical and sexual attraction…much food for consideration. I similarly distinguish between “female” and “feminine”. I generally find myself more comfortable and authentic around feminine energy regardless of gender…and I mean in the broad range of professional and personal relationships, and regardless of physical or sexual attraction. Great stuff DJ!