Tom speaks my mind as eloquently as I could hope to. Claps and kudos for the article and this perfect response.

The one tiny area I might offer an alternative view: I agree sex without orgasm is indeed the bane of many women's sex lives and is a well-sounded call for their partners to be more attentive and patient. But I do find there is also a next-level mindset (tantra being a great example) where you can leave behind the sometimes self-inflicted pressure of focusing on orgasm to enjoy the entire journey and experience regardless of outcome (and ironically often leads to even more intense and connected orgasms when they do happen). This is another sexual lesson I've learned as a just-turned-50 man who will sometimes have more than one and sometimes not have one at all, and can never quite predict which. I've learned to enjoy both situations with equal vigor (and feel blessed to be able to meet partners who appreciate that).

Wonderful topic and wonderful article Eva!