Yes Emma! This is my favorite sex activity bar none (though it’s a bit like saying one dessert is my favorite when there are so many to delight in). I truly love the up close intimate view of my partner quivering and spasming. I’ll often gently nuzzle her thighs and massage her pubis and outer labia as she recovers before gently starting in on her again. You are spot on that the most important signal you can send is that you vigorously want to be *right there*. I should note too: it wasn’t until I had a partner who similarly wanted nothing more than to go down on me for endless lengths before I truly appreciated how loving and mind-blowing it could be too. Wonderful article!