You are speaking your truth and I enjoyed reading the perspective. The message I take away is not that a partner sharing their sexual history is by necessity problematic (i.e. don’t yuck someone else’s yum), but rather that one should know oneself well know to know one’s likes and dislikes, and be able to stand up for that in relationships. And maybe too: I try to ask myself “how much of this is my anxiety?” versus “how much is my partner’s lack of consideration?”. There’s usually room to grow from that occasionally uncomfortable introspection and communication. Good stuff, thank you for sharing!